Subject: Chop Wood, Carry Water
Welcome to Celebrating the Journey!
produced by Margo Chisholm
Coach, Speaker, Author, Adventurer
Monday, March 13, 2000
I welcome the 53 new subscribers to CTJ this week. A
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Chop Wood, Carry Water
As I make the transition from last week’s marvelous
vacation back to the details of everyday life, including
work, I am aware that whether the part of life that we
label “work” is a joyful experience or a difficult one
depends totally on our attitude. We can consider work
purely in terms of survival, of the need to make a living
or we can view it as a way to deepen and enrich the
experience of our lives. It’s up to us, and it’s all about
attitude: bringing an attitude of joy and awareness and
spirituality to all that we do today, right here, right now.
Many of the unhealthy attitudes about work in our
culture stem from the “Protestant work ethic” that arose
from a harsh Calvinistic theology which judged sloth, lack
of prudence or lack of worldly success as sure signs that
you would not be one of “God’s chosen few.” No, no, no!!
Few of us subscribe to that theology any longer, yet the
first synonyms listed for the word “work” in my
Thesaurus are toil, chore, drudgery, grind, slavery, sweat,
tedium, travail, labor, pains, struggle, toil, trouble. There’s
not much room in those words for enjoyment or freedom
or fulfillment or joy or even success. We live with myths
like the following:
Children play, grownups work.
Work is definitely not play.
You’re not officially grown up until you go to work.
You’re weak and spoiled if you don’t work.
Women work at home but that doesn’t count as
Work is just that – work. You’re not supposed to
You must work hard.
As long as we continue to believe these myths, whether
consciously or unconsciously, we will find it difficult to
bring the same quality of joy and attention to our work as
we do to our leisure and the other parts of our lives.
It is possible to replace those old myths with beliefs that
allow the work that we do – even the parts that we don’t
love – to be a source of fulfillment and joy, an honoring
of who we are and how we live, an exciting opportunity to
reflect and grow. Here are my new beliefs around work:
I bring an attitude of play and lightness to my work,
even to the parts that are challenging.
Whether work is “hard” or not depends on my
attitude, not on what the work is.
Work is a playground.
I bring both the child part of me and the grownup
part of me to work and to play. And sometimes I get them
Work and play can feel the same. It’s my choice.
Each action I take, whether labeled work or
play, business or loving, giving or receiving, is a spiritual
act, made consciously with attention and caring.
The authors of “Chop Wood, Carry Water” tell us that,
“The old wage-slave mentality of renting ourselves to our
jobs for eight hours a day to cover the essentials of life is
giving way to the awareness that work is an integral part
of our lives. Therefore the quality of our lives and the
quality of our work-time are one and the same.” That’s it!
Just as the whole is much more than the sum of the
parts; a connected life is much more than getting through
the work-time part in order to enjoy the entirely separate
leisure time part.
I invite you to release the old myths and live your life as a
whole, connected journey rather than as separate bits and
Make a list of the old myths you have about work.
Write down the ways that each myth negatively impacts
how you experience life.
For each old myth, create a new belief that supports your
having freedom and joy in your work as well as in the
other parts of your life.
Post the new list where you can see it as you do your work
for the day. Read it at least once each day and CHOOSE to
act from those new beliefs. It truly is that simple.
I’d love to hear your new beliefs. Send them in an email
Many men go fishing all of their lives without knowing
that it is not fish they are after.
Henry David Thoreau
Every kind of work can be a pleasure. Even simple
household tasks can be an opportunity to exercise and
expand our caring, our effectiveness, our responsiveness…
These qualities of caring and responsiveness are the
greatest gift we can offer.
Nothing I do is too tiny or tedious to be spiritual.
Anne Wilson Schaef
from Zen Forest, translated by Soiku
We all deserve succulent work lives!
Chop Wood, Carry Water: A Guide to Finding Spiritual
Fulfillment in Everyday Life by Rick Fields et al.
This book, written in 1984, is a must for anyone wanting
to integrate the events of modern living, including work
and play, relationships and family, technology and
matters of the soul, into the quest for spiritual fulfillment.
For those new to or skeptical of the spiritual side that
exists in us all, Chop Wood provides practical, down-to-
earth connections between the everyday-ness of life and
the concept of spirituality. A most useful companion to
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What Color Is Your Parachute? by Richard Nelson Bolles.
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This year’s edition has been completely revised and
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Color Is Your Parachute? works as a good companion for
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A correction to last week’s humor section. The title of
“Random Thoughts” is really “Deep Thoughts”. It was
written by a comedian named Jack Hardy. Credit to where
it is due! And a few more Deep Thoughts – this time on
the topic of Words.
If a pig loses its voice is it disgruntled?
Do infants enjoy infancy as much as adults enjoy
When someone asks you, “A penny for your thoughts,”
and you put your two cents in, what happens to the other
Why is the man who invests all your money called a
When cheese gets its picture taken, what does it say?
Why is a person who plays the piano called a pianist, but a
person who drives a race car not called a racist?
Why do overlook and oversee mean opposite things?
“I am” is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English
language. Could it be that “I do” is the longest sentence?
If lawyers are disbarred and clergymen defrocked, doesn’t
it follow that electricians can be delighted, musicians
denoted, cowboys deranged, models deposed, tree
surgeons debarked and drycleaners depressed?
Do Roman paramedics refer to IV’s as “4’s”?
If you take an Oriental person and spin him around
several times, does he become disoriented?
Once again this comes from Jack Hardy via the laughing
heart of Jan Garrett, soulful singer and song-writer. Find
out who she is and what her music is about at
Give yourself the gift of a whole life this week.
Saturday, March 25 is the date of my next YOUR BEST
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This 3 1/2 hour workshop asks 10 simple yet profound
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next 12 months be your Best Year Yet, and get some great
spring skiing in at the same time!
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